keeping the peace on Thanksgiving.

All that togetherness on Thanksgiving can be very stressful.   People who grew up together have wildly different views on religion, politics, and just about everything.  Thanksgiving is the only time the whole family gets together.  We have had legendary arguments in the past.  here is a strategy which might work.  Before any family reunion or major holiday I start talking to my family.  About four weeks before any event I start phoning or emailing just to say hello.  Getting reacquainted helps to reduce the stress.  A relative asked me once what boring thing I was about to add to the conversation.  I think he was trying to be rude.  He didn't realize that I was trying to be bland, boring, and very safe.  All you have to do on Thanksgiving is show up and smile.  Don't tell a joke.  Don't mention politics.  Don't ever bring a brand new girlfriend.  If anyone mentions religion I head for the bathroom. I hope that all of you have a slightly boring but peaceful Thanksgiving day.