Some things are easy to understand. I often feel too tall so I autoselect short women. Almost everyone in my family has red or auburn hair and very fair skin. I was the only one with brown hair until it turned gray. I am attracted to girls with fair skin and red hair. My weight has often been a problem so I gravitate toward super slim girls. I am a clumsy dancer at best. No, I am an awful dancer. So I like women who move with the grace of a ballerina. You could describe all of these preferences as compensating for what I was not.
Some of my preferences make less sense. Why do I seek out black girls to talk to at parties? I have no special history with black girls. I just head for black girls without thinking. There is no special pattern to my dating history. Why do I love the outdoors when my family doesn't even like going out in the backyard? Why do I love certain movie stars and barely tolerate other equally good performers? I love taking tests and surveys. I don't know why. I usually chose trying new restaurants over going to places I know for certain that I will enjoy. Why do I love politics when my whole family is apathetic on the subject?
All I am asking is that you ask yourself why you strongly prefer one thing over another. Think about it.
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